Toy Review: Sh! Dildos – Mistress Cupid XL, Vibrating Strapless, Wirly Girly 3

If you’re looking for exceptional dildos, either for pegging purposes or for girl-on-girl action, you want to head to Sh! Womenstore.

It’s not for nothing that the Sh! team have won the adult industry award for ‘Most Innovative Retailer 2011, 2012 and 2013 as well as ‘Best Business’ in the 2012 Qype Business Awards and ‘Best Shopping Venue’ in the more generic Qype Awards 2012. Offering adviceclasses and courses in an all-round erotic education, the Sh! ladies seriously know their sex (or should that be Sh!x?).

Based in London’s Hoxton Square and with an established online presence for those further afield, the Sh! team are unusual in that alongside selling luxury lines such as Lelo and nJoy they also design and manufacture many of their own products – think lube, bondage items and harnesses. Perhaps the most impressive side of the Sh! brand is the extensive dildo collection, made of quality silicone in their local studio. If the array of products available is baffling, then you can call or email the Sh! ladies who will be more than happy to talk you through your option: after all, they were extremely patient in the store one evening when Cliterati grilled them about almost every aspect of dildo production!

Following this illuminative ear-bashing we were sent several examples of the Sh! workmanship, including the Mistress Cupid Extra Large Dildo which was a big hit in the office – literally! Yes, it’s a lovely large number, measuring 7 ½” insertable length and a similar circumference towards the base at its most girthy (if you’re able to insert it that deeply).

Sh! Mistress Cupid Extra Large

As with all Sh!-made dildos the shape of the the Mistress Cupid XL is perfect for its intended use: she undulates in all the right areas and tapers off to a Goldilocks width at the tip (not too big, not too small, just right). An expected bonus is that when used with a harness the Mistress Cupid XL is less likely than smaller, slimmer dildos to slip out of the recipient at an inconvenient time. Thanks to its generous proportions it also gives good pushback to the giver, as the soft heart-shaped silicone base feels fantastic under the harness nestled against your clit. If you’re a girth gal who’s into penetration then this big lady is for you. Mistress Cupid Extra Large Dildo also comes in Vibrating form for an additional £25.

Speaking of vibrations, never ones to knock back the opportunity of ever more intimacy, Cliterati also had the pleasure of testing the Sh! Vibrating Strapless Dildo, meant for grinding and frotting rather than thrusting and bouncing. Yes, this is the “look, no hands!” version, where the wearer’s PC muscles engage to hold the ‘egg’ end of the dildo in place, meaning easy access to the clitoris (“look, no harness!”) and leaving your arms free to clasp your lover close. Suitable for both anal and vaginal play, while the ‘egg’ is shaped to be worn by a woman, the opposite end of the Sh! Vibrating Strapless dildo can be used on either gender.

Sh! Vibrating Strapless Dildo

Although small, the Sh! brand removable bullet in this Strapless Dildo is impressive compared to other similar sized bullets on the market. Obviously, the vibrations do get absorbed somewhat by the silicone – it’ll never be as effective as a hard-cover vibrator – but coupled with the Womenstore’s top quality Strapless Dildo it makes for an exquisitely intimate experience. Happily, as always the Sh! silicone is firm but wonderfully accommodating, and whilst the join between the giving and receiving part of the dildo is flexible it doesn’t feel remotely breakable. If you haven’t got Kegels of steel the dildo also works well with a harness for more vigorous fun.

Of course, if you are intending to use your dildos with a harness then you need a suitably gorgeous one to show off its majesty. Cliterati tested the Sh! dildos using our own harnesses from home, but Sh! do make their own beautiful versions in a variety of colours. In fact, we’re completely torn between the red, purple and hot pink versions of the Womenstore’s own-brand Corset Harness – the quality and colours on offer are simply exquisite.

Sh! Corset Harness in red

The Sh! dildos come in a similarly stunning array of colours – as you can see from the handmade marbled Wirly Girly 3 Slim Dildo below. Apart from being gorgeous, in general terms the WG3 is a nicely modest all-rounder: ideal for strap-on sex as it has a good length to it (so is less likely to slip out of the recipient), and great too for anal or those not hung-up on girth as it’s nice and slim rather than intimidatingly wide. Plus, the ridges are tantalizing when used slowly in either orifice. Of course it doesn’t hurt that the Wirly Girly 3 is also simply gorgeous in every shade: it was love at first sight for Cliterati – especially when we learned there was a vibrating version for a mere £8 more!

Sh! Wirly Girly Dildo 3

This outstanding quality also goes for the rest of the Sh!-made products – of which there are many. So remember, if you are overwhelmed by the wealth of choice available then you can easily call or email the Sh! ladies who will be more than happy to talk you through your options. No need to feel embarrassed – not only have the girls heard it all before, but the store isn’t called Sh! for nothing: Discretion is their middle name!

Indeed, at the Womenstore you’ll quickly realise they really do provide an award-winning service: Cliterati would liken it to the difference between heading to a supermarket for an item or enjoying expert advice at a specialist shop (but without the potential intimidation factor, as you’re sure to get a warm welcome at Sh!). For an exceptional experience from start to finish, simply include their paraben-free water-based lube and antibacterial toy cleanerwith your purchases and you’re good to go. And go. And go!

Mistress Cupid Extra Large Dildo is available from Sh! Womenstore for £80

Mistress Cupid Extra Large Vibrating Dildo is available from Sh! Womenstore for £105.00

Sh! Vibrating Strapless Dildo is available from Sh! Womenstore for £74

Wirly Girly 3 is available from Sh! Womenstore for £38

Wirly Girly 3 Vibrating Dildo is available from Sh! Womenstore for £46

The Corset Strap-on Dildo Harness is available from Sh! Womenstore for £62

This piece was originally posted on Cliterati on February 10th 2015


Toy Review: We-Vibe Thrill

Being a fan of the (at least!) two-pronged approach to masturbation involving a pair of vibrators, I’m always on the look-out for the one single toy which successfully incorporates both clitoral and G-spot stimulation. There are many products on the market which claim to do this, but personally I’ve yet to find one which hits the spot(s) as well as two separate vibes do.

Having been disappointed many years ago by the Rock Chick (I’m sure subsequent versions have improved it exponentially), I wasn’t certain how I’d find the similarly-shaped We-Vibe Thrill. Although it is a bit of a challenge due to his size, my well-hung husband and I enjoy using our We-Vibe 3 together – ditto the similar Lelo version, the Tiani 2 – but these are couples toys, and I was dubious as to whether the Thrill would pack the same punch on a solo tip.

Granted, the Thrill’s slightly longer and wider at the internal end, and there’s a handle to ably manoeuvre it into place over your clitoral area (a handle which, by the way, I think is design genius), but would that be enough to deliver what the Thrill promises: “an elegant vibrator that stimulates both the G-spot and clitoris” – in other words, the toy I’ve long been searching for?

Well, in my opinion I’d say that We-Vibe got some of that correct with regards to clitoral stimulation – but then we’re not all physically made genitally identical. Let me explain: although the Thrill’s external vibrator was great (though not incredible), and the whole toy was wonderfully flexible and didn’t pinch like the Lelo Ina 2 rabbit (which because of the short space between the long internal arm and the external finger can painfully pinch your clitoral area rather than caress it, depending on your body), for me the internal arm got nowhere near my G-spot.

That might be anatomical rather than anything, but just like the aforementioned Ina 2 I’d say that the We-Vibe Thrill could turn out to be an expensive gamble – not because it has the potential to be painful like the Ina 2, but because it might not satisfy you internally – i.e.: deliver at least half of what the sales pitch says it should.

Fortunately, however, although you can’t try before you buy, we’re here to help you at least take an educated guess on a product based on your likes and dislikes.

For example: I may be a ‘size queen’ simply because of personal taste and because I’m used to Mr More’s unusually large appendage, but I have female friends who for medical reasons, or just through sheer preference would rather engage with a small cock (yes lads, there really are women like that out there). I suspect these ladies would find this toy easier to take than your standard rabbit. In fact, I have one particular friend who would welcome the Thrill for that very reason, and if she still wants it once I’ve thoroughly washed then sterilised mine with Lelo Antibacterial Cleaner Spray, then she’s welcome to it!

But if like me you enjoy ‘feeling full’, I suspect the Zini Roae Love Luxury Rechargeable Vibrator (which Lovehoney also sell) would be more likely to deliver on G-spot pressure. However, I haven’t tried it yet, so I can’t say for sure. So if you like your men big (or even bigger) and specifically want something from the We-Vibe range, I suggest you buy the We-Vibe 3 for use with a partner.

Meanwhile, for me the search for a single ultimate clitoral and G-spot toy continues: it does take a bit of coordination and arm ache for a two-pronged wankathon, and I’d love to say the We-Vibe Thrill was the holy grail I’d been looking for, but unfortunately for me it didn’t really hit either spot for which it was intended. But we’re all different. Personally, I’m still on the look for a toy that does it all, and at least it will be happy hunting while I’m exploring all the options! I’ll keep you posted…

The We-Vibe Thrill is available from Lovehoney for £119.99

The We-Vibe 3 is available from Lovehoney for £99.99

The Zini Roae Love Luxury Rechargeable Vibrator is available from Lovehoney for £119.99